That charity gala at the Harvard Club last winter, surrounded by trust-fund dermatologists discussing their Nantucket summer homes while I stood there in my mother's vintage Chanel, clutching a flute of champagne I didn't want and realizing I'd rather be at Sully's with a burger and a Sam Adams. My father cornered me by the oyster bar to introduce me to "a very nice young man from Goldman Sachs" who spent twenty minutes explaining crypto before asking if I designed "those little houses people li